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lovinglisa
Columbus GA
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Wed, Jul 21, 2010 20:07
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I am so blessed
Hello, I’m Lisa. I’m 30 years old. I am a proud mom of 3. My son Jaysen is 10 years old and has autism. I have twin girls named Anna and Alexis. They are 7 years old.
I had a lot happen in my life since I was 8 years old. I lost my dad in a car accident. When I grew up and started my own family. My husband of 3 years was killed. Jaysen was 2 years old and I was 4 months pregnant with Anna and Alexis. He knew I was pregnant but, he didn’t know about the twins. I found that out 3 months later. My twins are the first twins in both families. I cherish that. When Jaysen was 5 he was diagnosed with as burgers autism. I did get remarried 4 years later to, I thought was a good man. But when I thought everything was going great, another bomb was dropped. My 2nd husband decided to emotionally abuse me and slapped Jaysen in the face. So, now I’m going through a divorce.
I know whoever reads this may not care to know about my whole life but, because of all that craziness. I was letting myself go. Gained weight, stopped fixing my hair, and I had no hope of going back to school. Well, here I am. I’m here starting classes, losing weight and I have turned my life around very well. So, I have to say, I’m extremely happy for myself for stepping up and doing something with my life.
When I saw much weight I gained and how much I was letting go. I couldn't believe myself. When I reached a size 24. I said that was it. And I got serious. I went from 263 lbs - 225 lbs. and I feel amazing.
I’m glad to say that if I didn’t have Jesus in my live. I honestly don’t know where I will be. I had put my faith and trust back in him. And now I believe I’m stronger than ever.
I’m 30 years old and I thought I didn’t have a chance in life. I know now it’s never too late to start school and put your life on track.
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eyelovewoodart
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Wed, Oct 13, 2010 16:10
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wonferful!
Way to go lovinglisa! It's great motivation to hear other success stories! You should be very proud of yourself for all you've overcome. Your story has given me motivation and perspective. Thanks for being brave for the sake of yourself, your children, and therefore everyone that is affected by you and your family.
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cchavez84
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Sun, Dec 12, 2010 19:12
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Congrats!
Congrats girl! Sounds like you have taken the uphill battles in your life and used them as motivation for a fresh start! I am so happy for you. I am sorry to hear about your father and husband. I know how hard losing family can be, and how lonely it can make you feel. Life has its ways of looking at things so much differently. Good luck to you and your weightloss and your fresh start at life ! God Bless !
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lovinglisa
Columbus GA
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Mon, Jan 3, 2011 09:01
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Thank You!
I feel kind of a shame. I thought I was getting my life back on track. Well, I kind of gave up on myself and ignored the weight loss and healthy eating thing. I am now back on this site and finishing what I started. I really havent done as bad as I thought. So I still have chance.
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lovinglisa
Columbus GA
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Wed, Jan 5, 2011 10:01
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Let nothing stop me know.
I left for Texas shortly after losing the weight that I did. It was the biggest mistake. I was not able to work as hard to keep the weight loss. Eventually, I gave up alltogether. I even stop taking classes. I can kick myself for doing what I did. I allowed myself to gain tp 245 LBS. I was in tears to see that I let myself go like that but, I did feel good to know that I didn't gain the whole 40 LBS. So, my motivation is back in the game. I am finishing what I started and I'm not going to let anything stand in the way.
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Danciegirl15
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Wed, Jan 19, 2011 18:01
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We're in this together, girl!!!
This might sound weird,and i truly hope it doesn't offend you because thats the lasssst thing I would ever want to do. ... but I actually am in recovery of an eating disorder. Although I am thin, I struggle with bingeing. (and purging) Anyways, I too am a Christian, God has really helped me to realize just how he feels about me. I understand the feeling of not wanting to go places, or do your hair and stuff...Eating disorders really make you feel like you are no good, and that no one will love you unless you are thin. I just want to let you know that I'm going to keep you in my prayers, and also that there are actually a lot of verses that will help you when you feel weak and want to over eat. My mother used to be in a program called Weigh Down Workshop. It was a Christian weightloss program. One of the things they really pushed was running to God instead of food. It's extremely hard, and I've been really pushing myself to do so. God wants us to be happy,and satisfied with Him. To live off the fruits of the spirit, such as self control, than actual food. NOT THAT IT IS EASY! :) Believe me, although at times (through anorexia) I have had an immence amount of self control, i struggle with it now. I have a lot of anxiety, and a hole inside of me that i tend to fill with food. So I'm here with you, believing in you, as letting you know God loves you so much. You are his beloved. Keep up the hard work, and rely on Him in times of need, and He will not fail you. <3 God bless, and I hope you reach all your goals. Message me anytime, I'm always here to encourage! :)
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chocolatechips
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Sun, Aug 28, 2011 09:08
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God is Listening
My heart was touched by Lovinglisa, and danciegirl15. Your both are in my prayers. I hope you both are still on this site. I would love to hear from you. I've been a christian for 37years. I know stress can cause all kinds of problems. Sounds like you both have had your share. I am 12 hrs. ahead of you all. l am living in Asia until Oct. I want to lose about 25 pds.that I gained since being overseas away from my 3 children and grandsons. Stress eating. But, I am back on track. Hope we can encourage each other.
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donnasim
Baton Rouge LA
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Fri, Oct 7, 2011 11:10
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WOW
WOW, what a story.... man, now I feel that my life being caregiver to my husband with a short term memory loss issue is NOTHING!!! He died while jogging and was recessitated after a lengthy period and suffered this brain injury.... I too have a lot of faith and pray lots for my blessings in life... Stay on track and welcome to the GREATEST decision in your life--improving your health!!
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donnasim
Baton Rouge LA
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Tue, Oct 18, 2011 17:10
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Go for it
Everytime I read your post feel very, very blessed!!
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