Sick of settling. : Community Message Boards
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ambergran
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Thu, Jul 15, 2010 11:07
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Sick of settling.
I am sick of settling for fat. I need to lose about 150 lbs and I have a fiance who is tiny and loves how I look and almost supports me no matter what, but he doesn't push me. If I have no support I feel like it will never happen, I want to be healthy. It is time! I am only 20 years old and have gained so much in the last few months due to boredom and emotional eating. and it makes me sick. I look in the mirror and don't see fat, don't feel fat. But when I see pictures and videos of myself, I see what my mom tells me I look like. Its so depressing to know that I have surpassed my mothers weight. I am in need and here for anyone who needs someone to work through this nasty issue with.
all my love and hope that things will soon be different.
Amber Kathleen
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ambergran
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Thu, Jul 15, 2010 11:07
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Sick of settling.
I am sick of settling for fat. I need to lose about 150 lbs and I have a fiance who is tiny and loves how I look and almost supports me no matter what, but he doesn't push me. If I have no support I feel like it will never happen, I want to be healthy. It is time! I am only 20 years old and have gained so much in the last few months due to boredom and emotional eating. and it makes me sick. I look in the mirror and don't see fat, don't feel fat. But when I see pictures and videos of myself, I see what my mom tells me I look like. Its so depressing to know that I have surpassed my mothers weight. I am in need and here for anyone who needs someone to work through this nasty issue with.
all my love and hope that things will soon be different.
Amber Kathleen
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ww2rosie
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Thu, Jul 15, 2010 20:07
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Looking for a new way of life
I am new to this sight and weight 342 pounds. I am tired of feeling this way and looking this way. I have tried everything and am now on the South Beach Diet. I am on week 2 and have had a bad day today. I will start again tomorrow and move on. I am always looking for support and a new group of friends. I am making a lifestyle change not just dieting. I have lost 8 pounds in the last 2 weeks, so I just have to keep on plugging on.
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Beccalyn
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Sat, Jul 24, 2010 01:07
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tired of the wieght and the meds because of the wieght
I am new to the site and looking to talk with others who have more than 50 to shed. I will be 50 at the end of the year and I have decided that I do not want to be overwieght and on diabetes meds for the next 50 lol. Hopefully I will be around for that long, but not if I don't lose some of this wieght. So hopefully this is no tis is my new begining. It's hard to talk with my husband about being overwieght he's never had that problem he's always been very thin and eats like a horse doesn't understand that I just don't have his high metabolism. My sons always tell me I should do this and that exercise wise but there again they do not have the wieght problems I have nor the limitations of being able to exercise. But I will be starting a walking program tomorrow and a little cardio abd I WILL STAY WITH IT FOR MORE THAN A DAY NO EXCUSES BECCA
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Beccalyn
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Sat, Jul 24, 2010 01:07
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ambergran
We don't have to settle for fat. I know we are capable of losing this wieght and will. My husband is also suportive he loves me no matter what he doesn't understand that I am not happy with myself don't wait to put yourself first. Why have you been eating emotionally, if it's something or someone that puts you in the place that you feel you need to eat because of it or them get them away from you. Save yourself. You are worth it. Whatever or who ever is doing this needs to be dealt with. You said your fiance is supportive can you talk with him about anything then tell him why you eat emotioanally. It took me 30 years to finally tell my husband the reasons I sabotoged my wieght lose progress and I still have other issues to deeal with that I will never be able to tell him or anyone else but I know I am not going to let it or anyone else determine my wieght only I can and will do that for now on. I too really need a support system hopefully we can all help each other
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0453
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Sun, Jul 25, 2010 15:07
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Were in the same boat!!
Hi I am from Windsor ONt Canada, and I am waiting for the gastric bypass, but in the meantime I have to lose some weight I am new here looking for some friends I can talk to. I wish you all the best I know I have about 120 lbs to lose so were in the same boat!!! I hope all is going well for you keep positive
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