first time loser

Maybe try being a little firm with him, and yourself. Let him know that it really is important to you that you lose the weight. Ask him to be supportive and not bring home junk food. Maybe if he understands how important this is then he'll stop bringing the Oreos home. Also, when he sees you making progress towards your weight goals it might help him to want to be serious about losing it too.

I wrote this post for my mother. I hope the words speak to you as they have to me. Good luck on your journey... Remember - Today happens whether you make good or bad choices :) Love and Health! http://mamatwana.blogspot.com/2010/04/time-happens-no-matter-what-your.html

It may seem like a lot! But the important thing is to try to remember that all the little choices you make in your day today, tomorrow, and each day after that will determine if the next year you will be less, more, or the same weight! Love and Health! http://mamatwana.blogspot.com/2010/04/time-happens-no-matter-what-your.html